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Each of these posts incorporate real stories and practical truths. Many of the posts were written while we were in the depths of the challenge/season, so they are raw and real - not just hindsight. But at the heart of every post, you will find encouragement and hope.


Adoption

Grief

Parenting

Reconciliation/Unity

Change


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