Assume the Crash Position
The landing gear was stuck as my friend was flying from Fargo, ND to Dallas. Preparations were being made by the flight crew and the pilots for a potential crash landing. The Dallas runway was cleared and emergency crews filled the area. Then the call came from the flight crew to the passengers, "Assume the crash position." Scary. I'm thankful that I have never had to assume the crash position on a flight, but there have been many times in my life in which I had to produce "survival" positions in order to protect myself from whatever situation I was in. These positions come from instinct - I believe that often times they are God-given protective skills. But what happens when we continually use the protective skill even when crisis is over? Consider my very unhealthy relationship as a young teen. This young man was controlling, manipulative, and abusive. To eventually remove myself from the situation I got into survival position - I mentall...